Category Archives: NLP techniques

Positive Parenting EBOOK

This EBook is an introduction to NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming and how it can be a great help in parenting. Positive Parenting is encourages all over the world in most cultures. Click HERE to go to my page on Smashwords and read all about it.

Get your child to do what you’ve asked….the first time.

Would you like to get your child to do what you ask, the first time? Here are some helpful tips in disciplining your toddler or child. Some children have a clear idea of what they want. They have what we call a ‘compelling outcome’. In any situation, however seemingly trivial they know what they want the outcome …

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The power of disassociation

Have you ever wondered why it is that when another parent is telling their child off or you see a child misbehaving you don’t get stressed by it; indeed you may hardly notice it. Yet when it is your own child misbehaving or you disciplining your child it seems as if the whole world can …

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Why NLP for parents?

NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming has been used in Industry for leadership and management training for many years and is now being adopted by parents all over the world to help them build parenting skills. Surely if it has been successful in business for building confidence, rapport, negotiating skills and conflict resolution then we need …

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Exams – how to get the better of them

  When I say the word ‘exam’ what comes to mind? Do you get a picture in your head? Do you hear something? Or do you feel something? Being aware of whether you are visual, auditory or kinaesthetic can help you manage your reactions. Is it the word exam itself or is it what the …

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Give your child the gift of CONFIDENCE this Christmas!

Children can lack confidence at any age, from toddlers to teens. Show them the Circle of Excellence and they will be able to use it whenever they feel shy and overwhelmed. Here’s how to do it. 1)      Imagine a circle on the floor; you can lay one out using socks or tights at first. You …

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Top 10 Tips for parents this Christmas

Here are some Top Tips for parents this Christmas. Children are like puppies! They need plenty of fresh air and exercise, regular healthy meals and a few treats when they behave well. Reward good behaviour rather than punishing bad behaviour. Christmas is a busy time for parents and it’s easy to get on with all …

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How much self-esteem do you want?

I’m just writing the first chapter of my next book – Self Esteem Workbook. The chapter is about how we get the low self esteem in the first place and then keep it into adulthood; often passing it on to our kids. I have no end of children brought to me with low self esteem …

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Change your mood by breathing differently

One really quick and effective way to change the way you feel is to change the way you breathe. As you know, your brain requires oxygen in order to  think clearly. Your muscles need oxygen in order to work and move about and your digestive system uses oxygen to help process the food you eat …

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How can NLP help when you move house?

Moving house is usually quoted as being the most stressful change you make in your life because of the financial and logistical aspects as well as the emotional upheaval of moving from a loved home to perhaps a new area, away from friends and family. It is also often accompanied by a change of job …

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