Meet Judy Bartkowiak
Author |Trainer |Therapist |Coach
30 years of helping children thrive emotionally
Hi, I'm Judy Bartkowiak and I am passionate about making a difference
in the lives of families, particularly children and teens.
This also involves working with parents to help them support the children I'm working with as well as to clear any childhood, inner child, mother issues, trauma or birth issues that could be affecting the relationship with your child.
Experienced NLP Trainer, EFT (tapping) and PTT (picture tapping) Trainer
Author of Understanding children and teens and Empower your kids
Secrets of Neuro Linguistic Programming
and
The Engaging NLP & EFT series of family workbooks
Coaching children and teens for managing their emotions leading to increased confidence and resilience
Trauma trained for birth and early childhood events
Change is in your hands means that I will help your child or teen to express and understand what they feel, through creative activities such as abstract expressive art, crystals, clay or Lego modelling, together with EFT Tapping, Reiki, and NLP so they learn how to manage those emotions and make choices that will bring them joy.
I will not 'fix' them because they are not broken.
So, welcome to my online home, come in, sit down and let’s chat.
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THERAPY ROOM
It is really important to me that clients can feel relaxed and safe, welcomed and able to express themselves in whatever way works for them.
My home is my home, it isn't a clinic or obvious therapy space. It is a bit cluttered as I have art materials, collage, crystals, lego, playdoh, sand tray and lots of bits and bobs.
You choose what works for you, you may even prefer to sit outside, wander round the garden or sit and express what you feel with paints or clay.
LIBRARY
I have written a lot of books!
I love writing and sharing my knowledge with anyone who is interested - sometimes even those who aren't!
My style is relaxed and easy reading despite my professional knowledge and experience. My intention is to make it easy to learn how to help your kids. Why would I make it hard? That would be bonkers.
I get great reviews from parents who say that they found the exercises easy to follow and had a great and positive impact on the situation they were experiencing.
I use examples to illustrate each situation and plenty of space (in the Engaging NLP & EFT Workbooks) for you or the kids to write in their thoughts.
They are for you (Parents/Teachers) or your kids (Children, Tweens, Teens)
Books such as
- Understanding Children and Teens
- Empower your Kids
- Secrets of Neuro Linguistic Programming
are more textbook style although they are easy to read and very practical
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TRAINING ROOM
I love to share what I know and as I'm constantly learning, reading, listening to podcasts, taking training courses and seeing clients, I'm learning all the time so Ihave lots to share!
I have created courses from all my books because lots of us learn best live and engaged in the process. I am working on creating downloadable versions as well.
Put together your own modules to suit your own or your child's needs.
I love the creative approach so give me a call and let me know what you'd like to know more about or what you would like help with and I create your own course.
Shared courses also possible.
If you are looking to become a Kids coach/therapist/practitioner and run your own practice this professional course is very popular.
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ENERGY HEALING ROOM
I can offer you relaxing healing sessions either as part of your therapy journey with me or a treat for yourself during stressful difficult times.
Our body can hold stuck energy of sadness, grief, loss, betrayal, abandonment, tapping and hands-over energy work can reset your energy body and leave you feeling a sense of peace, calm and freedom.
As an EFT Trainer and Matrix Reimprinting Advanced Practitioner, we can dispense with content and lots of talking and focus instead on how you are feeling, using the acupressure points (like Acupuncture but without the needles) to find what your body is storing, and release it.
Energy Healing works well for all ages especially for overwhelm and when you just can't find the words.
Always seek your GP's advice regarding your health condition. See disclaimer on contact page.
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A little bit about me
When I was growing up it was not ok to share feelings, it was considered a sign of weakness. Instead we were encouraged to go ‘kick a ball about’.
Sport or exercise was the solution for everything!
As a result, I had no idea what to do with my anger, anxiety, sadness and sometimes in my young adult life, despair and extreme loneliness.
I had a very successful Market Research career working in the children’s entertainment world and whilst it was lucrative and great fun,
I felt I could use my children’s insight in another way.
I wanted to help my younger self and I wanted to do whatever I could to ensure that children like me and
young adults would have the tools I lacked and that I had now learnt and benefited from.
In my life as a wife and a parent, I have felt a failure very often, not heard, not understood and alone.
I now realise that I was looking to others for love and to complete me.
If this is how you feel, my Energy Healing space will be a comfort and an inspiration as I help you make that journey to loving yourself unconditionally.
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“Work is love made visible”
Kahlil Gibran
A note from me
Over the years, I’ve used my creativity and imagination to apply the tools I’ve learnt to working with all ages.
If you’re into the names , they are NLP, EFT, Matrix Reimprinting, Essential oils, Crystals, Art Therapy, Energy Alignment, Reiki, Emotion Code.
But I am more than the sum of my parts.
If you or your child needs to walk around the garden and talk on a bench we can do that. If they want to draw or paint, they can do that.
If they want to stroke the dog while they talk then he’s very happy for them to do that. If they don’t want to talk at all that’s also fine.
Healing takes place at all levels and needs to happen in a place of love and trust. I can provide that space.
Equally if you want to call me and just ‘pick my brains’ that’s lovely – here’s the number
If my way of working inspires you – think about how you could inspire the young people in your life and in your community – just head to the training room.
If like me you love your sports or have a child or teen who want to improve then go to the gym
Books are a good way to start your journey for you and your child – so settle down and browse my books, maybe one will catch your eye.
Judy
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Telephone: +44 (0) 1628 660618
Mobile: +44 (0) 7917 451245
Berkshire, United Kingdom
